I agree with PB with the exception of admiration for the W to have the "courage" to leave. I do believe it takes a great deal of courage to come back but to leave a family, it is not courage. I don't think we should rub it in their faces but I would never state that to leave it took courage (unless abuse was involved).
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God