Almost WAW has been having an emotional affair for seven months. She knows my concerns. She is adamant that they are only friends, but there is too much closeness there for me to believe otherwise.
I recently snooped a little on the computer. I didn't look into her email or anything, but just looked up the history of what she looked up. I found something very concerning. I brought it up to her, and she gave me a somewhat weak alabi, and I blew it off. I had snooped a bit this past summer, and told her I would never again. This past fall, she seemed to have heard my concerns, and seemed genuinely concerned about my worries and backed off the EA. It has begun again. And it is almost worse than before. I think it may have gone physical.
But our marriage is hanging by such a thin thread, I am afraid to inquire about my findings any further, even though I don't believe her. We had a hopeful conversation today regarding our R. So if I ask about this, It will ruin the small amount of DB progress I've made recently. But I feel like I need to know for sure if this EA has turned physical. Wtf do I do here?
