is he too young for MLC?

[WAS32]

H has been really down lately. All of his "friends"he has where he is living are letting him down. Jobs aren't working out and money is really tight for him. He has a whole lot of stress right now. I have completely stopped asking him what he's been up to and what he's doing. I don't want to know cuz I know I won't get the whole truth. I think it bothers him that i am not trying to pry into his life. I validate his feelings but give him no solutions to fix anything. That is a big 180 for me. I like to solve everything and have always given him a way out of tough sitch's that he gets into. Not anymore. He's 34 and he decided to leave so he needs to do this on his own. With me being neutral about everything he can't focus on me and any reaction i might give him. i am hoping this is going to make him take a good look at himself. I know he's looking for any reaction from me. He's been trying real hard to get me to blow up at him and I just won't do it. I got off his roller coaster and am letting him ride it alone.

Just a little journalling to keep me focused. Hope I am doing the right thing.