I know one of the cardinal rules of DBing is no R talk, but how do I respond when my H is bringing up discussions every day about when he's leaving, planning, questioning the budget and how much money we can each afford to pay on the bills, when he'll see the kids, how much he still respects me, etc... I'm not doing well with my poker face- it's like getting hit again and again. Do I just try to act emotionless?


Me 39
H 45
T13 M11
D6.5 S4
ILYBNILWY July 07
OW e-mails found 12/15/07
H moved out 3/15/08