And I'm sure the guys you are dating now MJ would probably respond similarly since you are not D yet. Not that you are looking for a serious R either so it's not really an issue.
I can't even express how untrue this is no matter what theories Stig throws about. GP was looking for a serious relationship and he did respond very strongly to "strong bunny" when I let her out. IMO, although I don't at all fault you, you acted very weak bunny in relationship to SoldierBoy. Telling a man that you will only follow him if he gives you assurances that you can trust him doesn't show trust. It does the opposite. Basically you said "I will follow you into the alley if you say 'I love you'" If you had actually trusted him, and/or yourself, you just would have gone. Another thing to remember is that all of the animals can be manifested in superficial ways. Women actually do lust a bit after leather jackets and motorcycles and men do actually fall in love with a pretty face or want to f*ck a nice rack. However, these superficial animal costumes don't hold up under real scrutiny. Soldier boy was a boy relative to you, not a soldier.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
