MLC's come home-part 2

[ACJ]

Question for you with your H- are you D yet? Does he pursue that? Just wondering

No we are not D yet. Yes he is pursuing it. He started with the financial stuff which we are supposed to be finalising the end of this month. He then moved on to requesting a D based on 2yrs separation. I have refused. His latest is to threaten to D me on grounds of MY unreasonable behaviour if I don't conform to his original request. I am standing my ground. It's probably not very good DBing BUT it is what I have to do for me. It's a tough call b/c I only have a VERY slim chance of winning and even if I do if we are still separated after 5yrs he can get a D then w/o my consent. So the question for me now is it worth risking wasting all that money? I can't answer my own question but only continue to stall things and pray like there is no tomorrow that my H will see the light and come home.