I completely understand that men want and need to take care of women. My biggest question is why so many men seem to look to women who have foolishly and repeatedly gotten themselves into trouble versus women who have had a "bad break."
Because they need to be needed but aren't strong enough to render a strong woman vulnerable or something like that -lol. My point is that if a strong woman is able to render herself vulnerable then she will lend a man strength. My bunny is more evident than my lioness at the moment which is an unusual state of affairs for me but I am trying to learn from it. It makes me sad that everyone is so down on the monkey. It's true that dysfunctional monkeys do bad stuff but without the monkey there would be no sex or art or jokes etc. All the cookie jars on the planet would be safe but a terrible price would be paid for security.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver