I apprectae the input. After re-reading it, it is a bit harsh and overwhelming. After reading the NMMNG book though, Im trying to find a way to get my needs and expectations across. If I was given this list I would be pretty defensive too. So how do you get the point across that your needs are vaild and important?
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Certainly you should think about drawing some very simple lines in the sand which if crossed will result in you leaving. For example - quit drinking and go to counselling. If you see no movement on her part then follow-through and leave.
Sounds to me like you have your answer on how to shorten that list there, Newlywed.
That's some great advice, there. I suggest you follow it, bravely. YOU CAN DO IT.
