My grandmother was the little sister and she was the one who would fight anyone who picked on her sister who was 2 years older!!
LOL- I was the big sister and I did on occasion fight bullies who picked on my little sisters. What if instead of fighting the big bully who asked for my lunch money I were to say "You are bigger than me so you will clearly be able to take my lunch money if you want it but maybe instead you could use your muscles to carry my books for me?" Also, I must admit that on occasion I was the annoying monkey-girl who yelled "Betcha can't hit me with a snowball! Na-na-a-boo-boo!" and thereby provoked violent behavior - lol.
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