A question for you, and maybe you can address it on Mojo's thread... the Puppy one. You said:
Quote: I want a man who will love me and who I can love. It's as simple as that.... I just want to be able to speak to him honestly and NOT feel the urge to go outside the M. Because I know myself too well. I could easily fall in love with that person and I think that is where H might say "game over." Who could blame him. The goal : loving each other, would be shot to he!! at that point.
Now. You and I often do not agree on the details, but typically it seems we can find our way to the same point. (Which means you and I should NEVER take a Road Trip together, we can just meet wherever it is we decide to go, if we can decide that... LOL )
Based on what you've said up there... I'd see that as basic male honor and woman loyalty. Does that, for you... mesh in any way with my latest grand theory I spoke of on Mojo's thread? Just curious.
This thread is a little overwhelming but wanted to reply to what Corri asked me. And my official answer is "He!! if I know."
The honor/loyalty thing gets a little blurry. I liked what other people said about the strong puppy/bunny and also about not needing to create a fence when you get your own zoo in working order. I think H and I are striking a good balance now between all the animals. I think it was you Corri who said that loyalty Becomes the fence. I liked that. And if the loyalty is being questioned, a man who says "don't cheat, because we have a contract" is certainly not going to impact me as much as the man who says "don't cheat because we love each other, are good together, are soulmates, are happy, etc." But I'm a sucker for emotional men. And vulnerable men, (not weak!) as MJ said, but a strong manly vulnerability. yummy
