In about three weeks, my wife will recieve a bonus check. She knows this is coming, so she opened up a separate checking account and ordered her company to send all payroll to the new account.

Here is my question: Am I wrong in expecting her to share this bonus with me? I don't intend to sound like I am somehow entitled. But I do feel that way.

If you agree with me that she should share, any suggestions on hwo to broach the subject? I have no doubt she thinks I forgot about her quarterly bonus...

Oh, the amount will be in the neighborhood of what our mortgage payment is. I know that doesn't help much.... but I don't want to get too specific...


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9