What I am basically saying is that the way a man becomes Alpha is by earning the respect of other men and the trust of women. If you want a man to vibe Alpha relative to you, you have to trust him. However, the more Alpha (worthy of respect) you vibe yourself, the more Alpha a guy will vibe relative to you if you trust him. So both are important. But don't forget the monkey and cow!! -lol
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver