ACJ thanks. Believe it or not I really do love honesty!!!

I love how you brought up that only WE can deal with our own stuff. So true. It is hard (as everyone knows) today (this week) has been tough.

Question for you with your H- are you D yet? Does he pursue that? Just wondering...

M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again