Frank!!! \:\) First I wanted to offer you a smile. How are ya young man?

Now ;\) - tell me a few things please. Do you have any thing that you want to do for you? What kinds of qualities or skills would you like to possess? Anything fun, different, exciting or just different?

Check into those. See what you need to accomplish those. Make small goals....and maybe small goals to get to those small goals.

Maybe a meeting wouldn't hurt. You'd meet some friends, find an accountability partner, and be taking intiative to help yourself.

As far as your wife and what you should do - watch tv or stop showing affection....I think you should do what feels right. (but remember I'm divorced ;\) and my ex is dating the cow he was "friends" with before our marriage busted up...)

I just wanted you to know we're here for you, we're listening and we want to help. Me, personally - I just feel like I don't have the help to give anymore. I'm dried up - I didn't bust a divorce, but I do like me a lot better than I did....that's something I think. And I'm content. GOD help me I can't TELL you the last time I was actually content. \:\)

Best wishes Frank and I'm praying for you \:\)

....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

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