With all of his other self-destructive behavior (especially the alcohol abuse and drunk driving), this really seems like 'small potatoes'.
Rob, were you trying to make a joke by saying "small potatoes" when talking about my H? Just kidding.
Seriously, you are right. The tanning is a small issue compared to the other things (drinking, drunk driving...etc.). It's just one of the many things my H has done during all of this. I told my sister the other night that I know it would cause hell for us, but there have been times, even recently that I wish he'd get caught. However, I think that would probably push him over the edge instead of make him hit bottom and look for ways to improve. I'd told everyone that he drove my vehicle on Sat. night. Well, on Sunday morning when we went to breakfast, I asked him if he'd parked in front or back. His response was.....You think I remember. Sad, just sad.
Well, back to work. I did a great job of starting to get organized yesterday afternoon. I need to pick up where I left off.
Have a great day everyone!
SueS
Last edited by SueS; 01/09/0803:05 PM.
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day