Living together as semi-polite strangers

[mishka422]

OK, that does it! I had this thought this morning and I didn't want it to be right but I had to know for myself. H was working at a middle school crossing this morning until 8:30a. He has dentist at 11:00a. That was going to leave him quite a bit of time between and OW lives just down street from department.

I told him that he had to cut all ties immediately to OW if he were sincerely back in this house to work on our marriage. I knew he hasn't, now I have definite proof. I swung by her house 10 minutes after I talked to him this morning and found out by what he didn't say that he has stopped his direct deposit and will be getting a paper check so who knows how much of that he's going to actually put in account. He told me he was still at department when I talked to him (about 9:05a). He thought I was on my way to work. Little did he know I was right around the corner from him. I waited about 10 minutes and drove over to her house. Sure enough.....his car is sitting out front. OUR CAR!!!! I carry my digital in my purse everywhere I go. I took about 6 pictures of his car sitting there right next to hers. Called my cousin and told her to call her PI friend because I want pictures of the two of them together next. I need all the ammunition I can get. He is NOT going to get this D without a massive fight from me. At this point I am positive I don't want him back. He's a lying, cheating betrayer and there is no way I could ever rebuild trust in him. I'm done.

God has put me in this place so that I can come to peace with this. I am sure of it. This has been in his plan all along and I have to follow it. If it is in God's plan for my H to turn his life around then so be it but I will not sit idle and let my H walk over me and get everything he wants with no work from him whatsoever. I am more convinced now than ever that his L told him to get home so that he could claim irreconcileable differences. WRONG! I'm building the proof right now that I need to prove that wrong in the eyes of the court. GA does not look kindly on adulterers.