I also wanted to add. After the conversation she and I had last weekend. We got into the usual, you said this, no I didnt, I said this, No I heard what you said and you said ___. Do you hear the snide way you talk to me? Do you hear the ugly way you talk to ME?? I said look, this is a recurring problem for us. I say something, you hear somehting different, you say something I hear something different. It happens so quickly neither of us is really sure what was said. I suggest we get a digital recorder and start to record these conversations so we will know exactly what was said and we can stop arguing about who said what. So I picked one up and brought it home on Monday. I dont think she even realizes the ugly and confrontational she uses with me. Im hoping this will help us understantd how we talk to each other.
