MLC's come home-part 2

[ACJ]

Cagz,
You aren't going to like this but my H has done all of these things and more (like he has lived with OW as if they were married virtually since the moment he met her) AND for me it is over TWO years.

Both our Hs are very lost in all of this. Yes they are both saying they are 'done' with us. That hurts. It may well be the truth it well not be. Nobody except them knows. HOWEVER we do know how we are feeling and we CAN deal with that.

As for other men hitting on you. Seems like I had/have similar issues to you concerning my body and I haven't had anyone 'hit' on me either. But you know what I would'nt want them to. With a MLC H, 3 teenagers, 2 jobs and a degree to study for I don't think I have room in my life for another man right now. I've also found that once men know I'm not interested in a relationship that the ones who are actually interested in me as a person (and not what I can offer between the sheets) actually relax around me and have become good friends.

Don't let being a R or not define who you are. You are Cagzmom that is all that matters. If you end up being an improved version of the already wonderful you well then wayhey