On a related note, I'm starting to really enjoy married women. I was having a late dinner with some married friends this evening and I told them one of my recent "do what works" stories because they have a peripheral interest in the outcome. When I was done the guy said, "Really?" and you could tell he thought I'd been harsh but his wife jumped in and said, "Yes, that's what you have to do or she'll walk all over you."
Burg,
Would you mind elaborating on "do what works", with some examples? In particular, how it might relate to long term relationships? You could post on my thread if you'd like.
SM
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau