day by day

[Heartbroken]

I am on the other side of the fence - my H too was pushing for splitting the accts and I saw that as one more step closer to ending us - so I asked him to hold off.

LWB, I think it's great he ended it - hell my H 'ended it' three times. It's is an addiction and they need to really let go of the OP themselves. Let him see the positive LWB, the hard worker LWB, the opposite of the OW - don't look at it as a game to be played - you still need to be true to yourself. Either he wants you for you - and for the changes you have made and the work you are willing to do on the M or he loses big time.

Don't let your fears of him still wanting a D wear you down - fear saps the energy from us. He may be worried he caused to much damage to ever come back and you need to help him see there still is a chance...he's in a hole right now and he's not sure how to get out - or he may be questioning is it easier for him to just start over on his own? He loves his girls and that is huge!!!

Baby Steps and keep track of the positives!!!

You are doing GREAT!!

HB