Trixi movin' on up...

[MaxP]

Trixi,

Thanks for popping by.

I don't think renting a room out is odd at all. It may be a purely financial question and could make a place not feel so lonely. I'm thinking about it myself, not that I want to do it.

I also agree with your friend. The fact that your H does interact in a positive way with you sometimes (that also seems fairly normal, taken as a snapshot) must in itself be positive. There is certainly some hope in your sitch. You just need to set up and be clear about your boundaries and what you find acceptable. He must change to be worthy of being your H again.

Max