Frank I never posted to you before. I have read most of this thread but not all of it.

I just wanted to say that I know how you feel about being a 'guardian' but not having your own 'guardian angel'. That is me to a tee. I'm not in the same position as you. My H left for a second time and a D for us is almost inevitable (although not what I want). I'm having to be my own guardian angel and in part succeeding. I'm also having to learn to let go of things that although important are not in the grand scheme of things the most important.

I can't profess to be anywhere near as insightful as you appear to be but just wanted to let you know that I understand your sentiments.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15