My D6 went to ski lessons on Sat - H dropped her off but couldn't ski b/c of a hurt knee. When they got back D6 started telling me about the day, and H mentioned "meeting up" w/ a couple he knows (I don't) who also did things w/ him & OW. She started to say something but he interrupted her. Today she was talking about same incident w/ me alone, but mentioned Daddy's "other friend" not the one who is half of the couple (he never mentioned anyone else being there). When I asked what she looked like, she described OW exactly.
What else could be going on? What am I doing? I was ready to walk away from this sh*t 3 mos ago but he dragged me back in begging for me to give him another chance, he loved me, didn't want to lose me, blah, blah, blah. And I bought it - it took me awhile, but in the end he had me hook line and sinker. I had been living through this crap for over a year at that point and had contacted OW, heard all the lies, and so on. Why would she be back - how could she take him back knowing how much he had lied to her too? I don't get it. I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone and these people are aliens.
Plus I am pissed off that he let OW anywhere near D6. She is sensitive and makes every one of her wishes about Daddy coming home. How does he think she will react to finding out that this "friend" of his is actually the woman who helped tear apart our family. I want to stop him from being able to have her around my D6. I fear that I'll have to just proceed with legal actions to do that. I'm sick and afraid and just when I thought there was hope.
I'm just so hurt, so deeply hurt. I don't know what to do.
What does not destroy me, makes me stronger.
FA:43, H:42 D:7 M:10 yrs, T:24 yrs EA:?, PA:1/06 S:3/07 EA/PA ongoing Aborted attempt to move home 07/08
