She just told me that ok...you know him better than anyone. What ways have worked in the past when you have wanted him to do something that he didn't want to do?
I thought and thought and thought....and said...
"I can't really think of anything"
I think the only time he's done something that I wanted but he didn't want to do was when I just didn't rely on him at all and went ahead and made my own plans (after telling him what I was going to do). Not that I did that very often.
So I sorta know what I have to do. Make my own plans and be prepared to be more than flexible and be calm when he changes plans.
