Imageer, I agree with Punk in his assessment. I think you feel it too. It is a very "immature" relationship and they act like kids doing something wrong and they are afraid to get caught. I hope it stays that way until your W wakes up and realizes the mistake she has made and it is time to "put away childish things".
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God