I guess I should stop saying 'I love you' since it's not really what she seems to want to hear.
Stop reaching out to her, giving hugs. If she wants anything she'll let me know. She didn't seem to have a problem this afternoon kissing me, but later she did have a saying she loved me.
Be friendly, watch TV together or the other pointless things we do.
Sleep in the same bed. Pay the bills when I can. Talk about things we might do together as if they will actually happen.
We're really a bad match. Like she said, as long as we're together we don't seem to be able to fix ourselves. She's still the hurt little girl and I needed her, but she wasn't able to be there.