Your wife is not justified, Frank. You're the one that keeps trying to justify her lack of "ability" to support you. I personally lean towards it being a lack of willingness because she's lazy and selfish and has a false sense of entitlement but hey maybe it's just me...
And don't you dare zero in on that one quote of mine, Frank_D. You're gonna have to get up a whole lot earlier in the morning if you're going to try that bullsh*t song and dance with this girl.
So your wife sucks at being supportive. Hell, maybe she sucks all the way around. What if she does?
How does that let you off the hook as far as your responsibility to yourself, Frank?
And what about your responsibility to your daughters? You owe it to your daughters to get your sh*t together by whatever means necessary. No matter how much blood, sweat and tears it requires. They are looking at you and deciding what kind of men to pick to be their husbands. If the way you are right now would not make an acceptable son-in-law, I suggest you find the man inside you that is.
Take a break, Frank. Go on a little mini-vacation.
I can't believe I'm about to utter this stupid phrase but...
Go find yourself.
It's your TURN. Not preemptions this time, either. Finish the job.