Your H sounds a lot like mine. The back and forth stuff. Never knowing if he is going to be home or at his apt. I have no real proof of the OW, but that is always a possibilty too. Even the bowling. He goes out with what his C calls distractions, and goes bowling on Tues and volleyball on Sun.

So I think you are doing the right thing here. The 180's and not answering all of his texts or calls. Not being needy and GAL really does help. I don't understand what is going through my H's head and I have stopped trying to figure it out. Cuz this is not my H. This is some alien that has invaded his mind and body. Sounds like your H is doing the same thing mine is. Stay strong and keep smiling. This Dbing stuff does work if you keep at it.

HUGS!!!

Me:32
H: 34
T: 12 YEARS
M: ALMOST 5
S: 8
D: 4
S: 14 (OTHER R)
SEPERATED: 03/09/07 (but wanted to work on it)
NEW SEPERATION: 27/11/07 (doesn't know what he wants)
MOVED HOME 12/01/08
I'm acting as if this blue sky is never going to rain down on me....Sara Evans