Fooled again

My h just made it so easy for me to snoop, he left his booty call suitcase right out for me to see. There was the bill for the hotel. I scanned a copy for myself and put it back. I also did this with the receipt for a coach bag he bought someone but me for xmas. I still have not gotten a Christmas gift,

I have improved 100% in the snooping dept. I used to be consumed with it. Especially his phone. but he is smart he deletes every call log, text message, everything. I have given up, it just useless he takes the phone to the bathroom every time. And now i am starting to see a pattern of every night at 10pm he is either on in the bathroom or in the spare room on computer, texting with her i am sure. I just hope one day he will drop that phone in the toilet bowl, oh what a chuckle i will have.

I know things will not change overnight, i was just so hurt by a note he left me last week of don't wait up for me, i'm not coming home. thanks for understanding crap. I just felt if i could get the info, great if not its ok. I have the note.

Thanks again
bear


Me 42-Him 40
T20yrs Married 16yrs
2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore"
6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW
12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce