inmyplace, I don't know what you meant in the last post, can you explain more? When I look back on the 5 months that my husband & I were peicing before he left the 2nd time, I can now see he still had many unresolved issues. There were moments that I got really scared but just stayed quiet after his storms. He seemed to really want to work on things at first(honeymoon phase), but there were things he had said and done throughout that made me feel so uncomfortable. As soon as his pressures/guilt/depresion rose: he went-a-running again. I guess I am just trying to see if this will be a pattern to expect in him and how long the 2nd bomb might last(i know that no one knows the future-I am just looking for trends-since my H is the poster-child for MLC thus far). Thanks, Tipper
