What do you mean by stifling? I see it more as W doesn't want me to be aroung while OW is there. You should see W squirm when S8 mentions OW around W. There has been a couple of times while I was picking up the kids and OW is hiding that S8 will should out "Bye Sue!" W doesn handle that well. (OW doesn't answer either) W has even lied to cover up for OW. There was a day a while ago that football was on the TV when I picked up the kids. I said to W "Your watching football?!?!" Ws answer was "S8 really likes it". When I got in the car I said to S8 "So you like football do you", he says "I hate football, Sue (OW)really likes football"
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford