Living together as semi-polite strangers

[mishka422]

Ok, the frustration is mounting over here. H called me while I was at bible study tonight but phone was on vibrate and I wouldn't have answered anyway. I had asked him to let me know if he was going to get stuck at work late so could arrange to have someone else take S13 to karate tonight. He called at 7:15p knowing I was at bible study (assuming he actually listened...I know...probably not) to tell me that he was running behind. WHAT EVER! He said he had the call at 5:30p for a 4 car accident. OK, 5:30p and you are just calling me at 7:15 to tell me this? JERK!

A friend of mine had a thought. What if he only moved back in here because his L told him to get his but home so that it did not look to the courts like family abandonment? I don't know. That actually sounds like something he might do. The more I find out about things that have occurred over the last couple of hears the more I doubt that this is truly just MLC and not a little of him just being a total jerk! He's never been like this before and suddenly he makes a complete 180 in his personality. If I didn't know better I would swear he was on drugs. Before anyone asks, he isn't. He's tested at work all the time without warning.

I just am losing my mind tonight. Going to bed and hoping for a better tomorrow.