Jar, no need to apologize at all. Believe me. I am so angry for you at your W.


I wish I could keep a cool head as well as you can -- if my W had done anything like this (and she's had her own doozies) I'd have exploded.

My heart goes out to your poor D's.

Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.