lwb, I think this can be a really good thing. but its also probably a pretty tough time...hard to walk that balance. also, keep in mind, your h could have his own agenda here. he could have certain expectations...be giving you and your m a trial run, with those expectations in mind. even though you aren't give the rules of the game ahead of time, he could be playing one. and that is where it can get tricky. because without talking about it, without knowing what is in his mind, well, you don't have a fighting chance. now, you are brilliant, and you are strong and are doing things that seem really dead on perfect to me...but is that how your h is seeing it?
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
