Oh, how many times we've ALL screwed up by doing something similar!? Sometimes it's 2 steps forward, and 1 step back. The only thing you can do now is re-focus, re-group, and carry on. And as the above poster said, he'll likely be a lot less aware (or scared off) than you think.
Hang in there!
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."