Today I picked up the D papers from my lawyer to give my W tonight. I got myself a haircut too!
When I dropped off D5 with her afterschool teacher, I asked the teacher how old her father was. She immediatly knew what I was talking about and mentioned that my W told her she was in love with a senior citizen. She told me that she pointed out to my W how sad her face looked and that she is making a huge mistake with her life. The teacher said that I am so strong and am the rock for my kids.
W called me and needed me to take D5 to S7's cub scout pack meeting tonight because she is so stressed right now at work filling in as the lead teacher that she does not have time to be with D5. She has too much to work on at our house for her pre-school class. I told her that there was a stack of D papers that are waiting for her to sign receipt of with a notary on the desk at home. I also told her we need to work on a parenting plan. On top of that, I know when she gets home that she will see my cats sleeping on what used to be our bed (now mine and cats bed) and she will get upset because she thinks cats are discusting vile animals. I actually enjoyed being woken up by one of my cats this morning with it kneading its paws on my chest. My W is starting to get more and more of a taste of what a D is all about.
Also, I forgot that on our nice Sunday night talk, she even said that the OM had tried to get her to return to our marriage. She has really no one that thinks she is making the right choice with her life.
