Gee, I have to agree with Sara (she's so smart anyway). I see this as good too. From the outside, it seems like your H is coming ever so slowly toward you. The dinner invitation, telling you he hadn't talked to OW, buying the new TV...etc.
I know how you feel about not wanting to get hopes up, but it's better when he's calling it off.
Hugs to you.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day