Originally Posted By: dry_heat
If you try to do anything, you'll just draw more attention to it, I fear. I think you do your best to NOT act like the kind of person that sent the email. Hopefully he will pay more attention to you, than the email.


Wow Jeff, that is good advice.. and I know that it makes be feel like atleast I can redeem myself when I backslide...LOL like I did today... but being serious... it is so hard to forgive ourselves when we backslide we try to scramble to find a way to make ammends, so thanks for the different approach!


me:29, H 33
Bomb- 11/06/2006 I came home from work to find that he had moved out into an apartment. next day he says he wants to work on our marriage but will not return until he feels right.
kids-4
m-10 years
T- 13 years
another Bomb-Sept '07 OW confirmed...