Thanks for the suggestion. I'll pick up the book and add it to my repertoire. I'm laughing because I have purchased so MANY books (like most of us) on MLC, communication skills, winning back your husband, the Power of a Praying Wife,etc., although I probably haven't purchased anything within the last year.
I do have a problem with detaching. We still do things as a family from time to time, and it feels "right" (e.g., joking around, etc.). I guess I have a hard time accepting the fact that he might actually divorce me.