W still angry with me, but the intensity lessens

[Lanzo]

Hmmm..... GAL costs money, I've just checked my account, shock !!, not much in it, I think I'll need to talk to my bank manager again.

Still on GAL, over the weekend I told W I would be going out to the comedy store to see Chris Rock on tour, you should have seen the look of shock on her face, even more so when I told her I was going with BIL and he's paid for my ticket. Her reaction was "When were you going to tell me ?", "Why the secrecy ?" I just told her no secrecy BIL has 2 tickets SIL decided not to go so he asked to to fill in.

Anyway tonight of the show, I get dressed ready to go, W says let me see how you are dressed, so I show her. "Oh you can't go like that, haven't you got a better top to wear." So I change. Then she suggests I wear black casual jeans instead of scruffy jeans. "Ok" she says "that looks better". BIL arrives to pick me up, W greets him with a kiss and hug, I give W a hug before I leave, but she makes the point of moving her head 180 so I can't kiss her (wasn't going to, but I'm gonna mention this).

Just before we leave W says "don't chat our busines with BIL".

OK, not to over analyse, but W choosing my clothes, controlling or concerned behaviour ?

Answers please. (before this thing locks up)