Hi atlas. I think you have definately made the right decision for you. You both are ovbiously at different points in your lives. you've chosen to grow up and be a responsible father and H. She has decided that she's not done having her fun.
I know that there are plenty of wonderful women out there that would sincerely appreciate the kind of man you've become when the time is right for you. Keep your head up and keep moving forward.
sounds like you handled yourself really well. I certainly don't think many would have been able to control themselve like you did. I can't believe she tried to blame you for the As (well, i can, but you know). That is ... really rediculous.
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown