Lord knows I am no expert here but that being said, I wouldn't have answered either. Some things just need to lay there and have time and space to be thought through. Personally, I think you did the right thing not answering. We are always so available, you and I.
Anyway, I really just stopped by to say "Hi Hope" and send you a hug. I think we both need one tonight.
((((((((((Hope)))))))))))
Love, Sun
"Tell me what you plan to do with your one wild and precious life." Mary Oliver