A Question: If she, at this point, took serious steps (counseling, no more OM, no more partying etc...) would you be willing to work on it, or let her try to win you back? Just wondering if you've closed and locked the door completely. Something to think about.
Sometimes I think that (false) hope (or is it desire?) can kill us.
I totally agree. Holding out for that would be a false hope and probably really not healthy, especially after how he confronted W. My question was more of a "hey, did you consider?" because if anything was going to get to this woman, this is probably it. I think she's been comfy with the fact that he's there when she wants him, but leaves her alone otherwise. But now, what happens when she wants him and he's not there. It may or may not be something that makes her reconsider her life.
Just like i can't be sure what it was in my H that made him all of the sudden say that he wanted to work on M and not get D. You never now what it's going to take. One day he wanted a D and the next he wanted M. Just wondering if Atlas had thought about how he'd respond if she started making extremely significant steps.
I agree that at this point, for him, he's made a great step. This was just a thought!
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
