Get Me on a Smoother Ride.....Need Advice, Part 11

[Rob1231]

Oh, gee and the countdown is on. I turn 40 one month from yesterday. What a way to celebrate a milestone birthday!

You mean this isn't how EVERYONE celebrates turning 40? I was starting to think so!

[SueS]

You mean this isn't how EVERYONE celebrates turning 40? I was starting to think so!

H's true meltdown and cutting off communication with me started 1 week after his 40th. Maybe I'll go out and get a tattoo, my belly button pierced, some extra rings, start tanning, working out like crazy, hang out with 20 somethings....etc. But I think I'll skip the EA/PA part. Just not for me.

Okay, I hope you all know that I don't see anything wrong with most of the above things, it's just that H did them ALL at one time. Oh, and a while back I'd busted him taking some "sexy" underwear out of his drawer that I'd bought him when he was leaving to go workout. I thought he was wearing them to sneak out to see OW. Nope, I've since figured out that it's what he wears to go tan!! Someone should tell him that if he's already needing to use Levitra, that maybe he should expose his "manhood" to those types of tanning rays.

SueS

[fightingirish]

sues... You are so funny...

Im glad to see that you are the adult in the relationship... really, that's great your going.. you are truly a wonderful sweet person and he is damn lucky to have you.

I hope the trip is a nice one and you all are able to be a family unit.

I know I don't post as much as I used to (things are crazy) but I do always think of you and hope your ok.



tal

[SueS]

tal-

Thanks so much for stopping. You're so sweet.

By the way, on my above post, I mean to say someone should tell my H he shouldn't expose.... Not should. Oops.

I hope you're okay. We all know how busy life can get.

SueS

[Sara]

Your husband pierced his bellybutton?

[fightingirish]

really.. that could so some serious damage!.. All is ok here.. H has been somewhat distant the last couple of days, but im taking it in stride and going about my business.

Analizing it never got me anywhere, so i don't worry about it much anymore.

Kids are great... we are shooting for our disney trip the end of Feb..we were going to shoot for Jan, but things just got too busy for H and he needs to take the work. So Feb it is!

tal

[SueS]

Your husband pierced his bellybutton?

Sara- No, he didn't get that pierced, but he got his ear pierced on his 40th birthday. I was just reaching for something that would be out of the norm for me when I said belly button.

TAL- A family trip. How fun. I hope all goes well.

SueS

[LL44]

And he tans?? He screams MLC!!

Meant to say I *love* that D3 assumed you were assisting her with the clean up of HER room. She is super cute.

[SueS]

lwb-

Yes, he tans. I was shocked, as his mom had cancer and a lot of problems with her radiation. He always told me that if he ever found out I tanned, he'd be really pissed, as he thinks it causes cancer.

Thanks on the D3 comment. She is a trip some times!!

SueS

[fightingirish]

wow.. I didn't realize he did all of it.. OMG.. that's just craziness.. I would have laughed my azz off at him.. I don't think I could control myself!!

tal