respond or stay still?

[heartbreak2]

Well guess I will move to the separated and D section for this seems to be where I am heading.

my L called today and H's L sent him a settlement agreement.
My L's words were.. "can't imagine why she sent this doesn't look like she even read it for we would never agree to this too much is missing"

now (bad word).... I spent 3 times talking to H to work out the agreement and we both agreed on things that we discussed and we walked away and thought and came back and agreed.
So what did she do?

ok my new plan ... will call L in am and tell him... can't meet you until next week for I am busy this week.. I am for my d has a friend here and I have a house full of kids starting friday for my d's big 18th bday on sunday.
H knows I have no time to deal with this right now and he has been sitting on it since the 8th of dec.
he can sit longer.

Then I am going to tell H that my L will write the settlement agreement and send him a copy and he can sign it. If he does not like it then we will go to court and OW will be named as co respondent.

no more nice guy. I am going to be firm no more walking over me and me thinking he is going to change his mind and come home. nope can't see it ever happening now. If he thinks I am stupid enough to agree to HIS idea of what he thinks I deserve he is in for a huge surprise.

Even my d has told him that he needs to respect me more for I have been way too nice to him in the last 18 months.
I am tired and just want this all to stop. I just get on the road to some happiness and he blows it all away