A Question: If she, at this point, took serious steps (counseling, no more OM, no more partying etc...) would you be willing to work on it, or let her try to win you back? Just wondering if you've closed and locked the door completely. Something to think about.
And really... those things will kill you... i agree with Heim
Sometimes I think that (false) hope (or is it desire?) can kill us.
And as long as we have hope of any kind we aren't truly detatched. DBing walks a fine line between detatchment and real hope until we step over to one side or the other. I think Atlas you have wisely taken that step because you don't see much real hope. Ann your thread seems to have locked up.
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread