I was just reading your post and you have such an amazingly clear thought process behind this. You deserve to be happy, to have people in your life that love you and care about you.
It is funny because everyone has different boundries. Some will allow the affairs and some won't at all. Seems like you know exactly what you will and will not accept from a W. good for you.
A Question: If she, at this point, took serious steps (counseling, no more OM, no more partying etc...) would you be willing to work on it, or let her try to win you back? Just wondering if you've closed and locked the door completely. Something to think about.
I can't imagine anything else you could have done, this is on her. I can't imagine what you're feeling right now, but i know it can't be great. I'm sorry. Take care.
And really... those things will kill you... i agree with Heim
Quote:
put down the cigarrette and hop on a bike instead.
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
