I think I had the impression that once the relationship was in good shape the sex should just fall into place.
I told ya! That is how men think! But everything isn't back to normal yet. More patient is needed. Maybe she needs extra IC. The least bit of pressure and you are setting yourself up for trouble.
Please try not to show disappointment in her or disgust at the slow progress. Remember, I told you that our first step is that we have to reach a point that we are willing "to be willing" to stay in the M. Then, we reach the point where we are willing to work at the M. So, it is baby-steps.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
