He told me a few weeks ago that before he goes, he usually doesn't feel like it. But after he goes, he usually is glad he did. But he also doesn't think she is helping him. I don't think he thinks he needs to be helped.
....but I realized after he left that he hadn't said ILY. So, that had me going for a few minues.
Then i decided to focus on me today and tomorrow.
Hey hon, most men are not going to like C, it is a 4 letter word for them. Perhaps he doesn't feel coMfortable with this C, have you suggested changing Cs? would that make him feel better?
About your second statement, there is wonderful book I highly recommend you read, it is called "Men, Love & Sex: The Complete User's Guide for Women by David Zinczenko ",it explains you many details about preconceptions we women have when men say/don't say certain things. I'm glad you did decide to focus on yourself and move on, eventually, it will be your no-brainer decision, your modus operandi, keep moving forwards gal))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
