I think you need to go with your heart on this one....what feels right? Myself, I'd probably volunteer the information if we were having a good day....if we weren't, I'd probably just go do whatever and answer questions later if it felt right.?????
BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally
Well I guess I can't tell H where I'm going if he isn't around.
I stayed at work and then went out to dinner with my sister and my cousin.
It was really nice and we had a good time. It was a time to bond and vent.
I was out until 10. Very GAL for me!!!
Came home and of course H was in bed sleeping.
When I got up this morning for work, H was up making his coffee and I kinda hugged him. Kinda as in "you can be sure I was being a good girl and you can trust me" hug.
He had his head turned to the side. Maybe because of the morning breath or because he did,t want to hug me. But he did put his arm around me.
I dunno...... sometimes it is so far from what I want, I wonder if I can ever get there.
Sometimes I am so lonely.....
Sometimes I am strong but weak in the knees.
What do I really want?????? I dunno
E
"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"
I understand how you are feeling. I think most people here do. I know that I have a lot of conflict in my mind about what I want, or why. They are hard questions, and I don't think there are easy answers. Sometimes you just have to let them lie awhile.
My, it looks like it is going to be a (hot, cold, cloudy, warm, rainy, muggy, wet, sunny) day today. Try not to get (sunburned, soaked, heatstroke, murdered by an angry wife)!
Pick one from each list! There you go!
Seriously though, don't mention it. It didn't happen. He will have spent all night worrying about his excuse, and you don't even give him a chance to use it!
and he undoubtingly knew it would!